everyone has got something to say about anyone.
everyone has got their own mouth and mind. they say things their minds want them to say but whether to give it a second thought before saying certain things, it will be another story to tell.
some people don't care how you feel when they say untrue things about you behind your back.
Perhaps these people just simply don't like you, or worse, they don't even know you well enough to comment about you.
Often we hear, be yourself, why get affected by what people think about you?
true true. they have their say. they can say whatever they want to and we can't control it. no matter what is their intention behind the scene, and whether or not the comments go into your ears, you'll still live the way you desire and do the thing you think is right.
I myself say so, yet often I shiver inside when I hear things people say behind my back.I mind alot what people think of me and what they tell another person bothers me alot. Alot. you may agree on my reason of why am i being so sensitive.
when someone say something bad about you to another person, that person will then have the same perception about you and subsequently share it with another person. then the whole world will think you're bad. haha.
mayyyybe it is true that i'm bad, but you can tell me to my face, like what chin chia yi did. and he thought i was insane for being happy over getting scolded. he said, 'why? cuz nobody scold you before ah?'
yeah nobody is ever so sincere to let me know why am i wrong and why should i change.
now i really think i revolve too much around myself. too self-centred, so as to say it in a nasty way.
anyway, what i want to say is, you have a problem with me tell me to my face k.. and then i'll decide whether to defend myself or to change for the better =)

p/s: i've been kinda assertive nowadays. too much of shit to be blurted out. but i think i should stop. lol.